There’s sometimes a bit of stigma attached to phone sex, and by extension the people who partake and enjoy it. I don’t go round telling everyone I meet that I work in phone sex, and I’m sure my callers don’t tell their friends and family about that great phone sex call they enjoyed last night, but pretty much everybody enjoys masturbation, and since the brain is hard wired to respond to sexual interaction with another human being, masturbation with any sort of human interaction is going to be more fun and, most importantly, more pleasurable.
So people who enjoy a good phone sex session from time to time are only displaying human nature, its pretty natural if you think about it. Show me a man with a healthy sex drive who hasn’t enjoyed phone sex, porn, watching webcams and the like and I’ll show you a damn liar! And who cares anyway, we live in stressful times and everyone deserves some pleasure. Sure, you can get a massage with a little extra, even pay for full blown sex, but there’s always a danger attached to that, and it’s not something that a normal guy would want to do every week.
Masturbation is something you can do any time you’re alone (or with an open minded friend or two) and an instant sense of pleasure and relief. There are actually well documented health benefits to regular masturbation, some of which might surprise you.
From anti depressive effects due to brain chemistry changes associated with masturbation and orgasm, to cancer prevention, there are many medical theories on the benefits of a good wank.
Menshealth.com published an article on the health benefits of masturbation, you can read it here.
People who are sexually open tend to be far healthier mentally and physically in my experience, and the nicest, most well balanced people I’ve known (and been with) have all been completely open about what they enjoy and how they get off.
So back to the original question, who enjoys phone sex? Some people would like to believe that phone sex is something cheap sluts do with sleazy old perverts, but its not the case. Both the girls and the callers come in all shapes and sizes. Let me tell you, there are some hot sounding guys that call up for fun, they are athletes, managing directors, builders, drivers, students…. basically there is no set ‘type’, and that goes just as much for the women as it does for the men.
Yes, You can be well educated, sexy, and have lots of friends and still enjoy phone sex and masturbation.
Rest assured, there is nothing bad or seedy about enjoying masturbation, and if enjoying it with a partner on the telephone increases those sensations then why shouldn’t it be a treat once in a while. You are defiantly not alone, trust me.