I’m not in a relationship right now, and when I am I’m always up front about what I do. In fact, I have many jobs and hobbies, phone sex is just one (very enjoyable) activity I indulge in so it doesn’t really define me, but I’m up front anyway and out of all the things I do, its always the phone sex worth that generates the most questions. A lot of people misunderstand, they put people who have phone sex in the same group as people who pay for sex. It’s not the same, people… although I believe it’s none of anyones business what someone wants to spend their own money on. Phone sex is not prostitution, and the majority of phone sex girls would not ever consider having sex with strangers for money. Its a completely different thing.
An ex of mine once sat with me while I was taking calls. His attitude has changed a little since then. Yes, he could see that I was having fun… but it wasn’t as if I was giving out my address and telling my callers to bring that boner over here. Honestly, I think thats what some people think I’m like!
Anyway, he got used to it, but I wonder, with the amount of students and young mums getting into phone sex (there’s been a surge lately in the UK, following tuition fees rising and benefits being cut) how many women are lying about their part time jobs to their significant other in order to avoid an awkward conversation of even anger.
Out of all the things you could do to make money, phone sex is really very innocent. I see it as harmless fun, you’re completely anonymous, the caller can’t follow you home after your encounter, you can be whoever you want to be so most girls develop an alter ego, which makes it even more about make believe and fantasy than an actual sexual encounter. It did get me wondering though, how many of the guys who visit here would be happy to have a girlfriend or wife who took phone sex calls as a part time job… Comment below.
I’ll leave you with a random as hell video about a ‘phone sex girlfriend’ that made me laugh recently on youtube.